Complimenting a baby without saying “pwera usog” may cause the child to fall ill (“usog”)

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Lara: [cooing over her friend’s infant nephew] Aww, look at him, Miguel! He’s so cute—
Miguel: Hoy! Don’t say that without “pwera usog!” Do you want him to get sick?

Lara: laughs Seriously? You still believe in usog?

Miguel: Of course! You know how many babies get fussy after strangers compliment them? My mom swears it’s because the person didn’t say “pwera usog.” Bad vibes, you know?

Lara: Or… hear me out… babies cry because babies cry. They’re tiny humans with no emotional regulation. They don’t need “bad vibes” to get cranky—they have hunger, gas, and existential confusion.

Miguel: No, no. This is real. One time, my cousin visited with her newborn. A neighbor complimented the baby—“Ang cute naman!”—but didn’t say “pwera usog.” That night, the baby cried nonstop and had a fever!

Lara: Miguel, that sounds like a normal day for a newborn. They’re basically part-time alarm clocks. Plus, fevers happen when kids pick up viruses, not compliments. Unless your neighbor’s words carried germs.

Miguel: Don’t mock the ancestors! They knew things.

Lara: I’m not mocking! I’m just saying… maybe the ancestors didn’t have access to pediatricians. If a baby got sick after someone visited, they connected the dots in the simplest way.

Miguel: But how do you explain that it only happens when someone with “malakas na dila” gives the compliment? Some people cause usog more than others.

Lara: “Malakas na dila” just means the person is loud or expressive. Babies get overstimulated. If someone’s super animated—like you, for example—they might unintentionally scare or excite the baby.

Miguel: So you’re saying I’m the problem?

Lara: I’m saying your energy is the problem. You’re like a human fireworks display.

Miguel: laughs Okay, fine. But still, saying “pwera usog” doesn’t hurt anyone. It keeps the family calm. It’s like a verbal seatbelt.

Lara: True. It doesn’t hurt. If it reassures the parents, go ahead. But believing it literally stops sickness? That’s where I get skeptical.

Miguel: Lara, have you ever tried NOT saying it?

Lara: Yes. Many times. I compliment babies all the time. None of them mysteriously fall ill because I forgot an ancient password.

Miguel: Maybe you have gentle energy.

Lara: Or maybe germs cause sickness and not adjectives.

Miguel: smirks You’re very sure about science, ha.

Lara: Because science is consistent. If “pwera usog” really worked, doctors would write it on prescriptions. “Take vitamins and say pwera usog three times daily.”

Miguel: That would be funny.
Lara: “Side effects include slight embarrassment.”

Miguel: Fine, fine. But still, for peace of mind, I’ll keep saying it. Tradition is tradition.

Lara: And I respect that. Just don’t give me a dirty look when I forget to say it, okay?

Miguel: No promises. I might say “pwera Lara” just to be safe.

Lara: laughs That better not start any new superstition.

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